…and when you get married? …Better ask me: How long have you lived?




…… and when you get married? … better ask me: How long have you lived?

I dared to write this “post”, since there are many people, surely it has happened to you, they mention you; “And when you marry” or “and when you have children”. If you have not heard those words … soon my humble adventurers, soon they will listen. Those words may sound while you’re single or have a partner. But in reality, what is the effort to get to that (it may not even invite you to my wedding haha). Well, we know that in some cases marriage is the dream of every great couple who want to live and unite in a single flesh that is also a tradition or act that most want to achieve, in the same way children. Some dream about having their children, for others, it is a topic they do not want to play for now. To all this, they have not analyzed something. How many people have asked you; How long have you lived? … We are in an era where apart from good morning! Or how are you? Do they include you, and when do you marry? Or the children? Most people do not answer, I know. But, because people do not dare ask, how long have you lived? Yes, because that’s what it’s all about, my humble thinking. Living should be paramount right now. Live as if we were children, with that curiosity above all, and that nostalgia to know new things. How long have you lived? Ask me that. You have not realized that to leave your home there is a great playground called planet earth and which we ride on something called life. Life which we must make the most of and discover the world. You better ask me, have you lived? Because my answer will be YES !. And we still live, discovering and creating new stories which will be bedtime stories for a future generation. When I get married? I do not know … I only know that I have a world to know, countries to visit and hidden friendships that I must discover. That marriage arrives whenever you want, there is no hurry. I only know that my passport expires soon and I must renew it. Let us avoid the future a little, and let us look at our present. What we have facing us. That life and those energies to discover things beyond our zone of comfort. Even with or without marriage, we must be free souls to live and to know more about this world. So take the reins of your life and focus on what was given at birth, the freedom to live. Now I ask you, you who read me…… How long have you lived? … Blessings!

By Abimael Lopez (Instagram/abillop) #life #travel #adventure #happiness #BucketTrips




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